What are we doing Wrong

Neha is tall but can't play guitar. Sheela can dance well but can't sing well. Sunidhi can run like athletes but can't dance . Aditi can sing but she is short. Hema can play drama but she is not well in English. Pushpa is black in color but can play guitar. Jaya is white in color but can't play a drama. Anushka is well in English but can't run like athlete.
Neha wants to be Pushpa. Pushpa wants to be Jaya. Jaya wants to be Hema. Hema wants to be Anushka. Anushka wants to be Sunidhi. Sunidhi wants to be Sheela. Sheela wants to be  Aditi. Aditi wants to be Neha.

Yes, we are doing this shit continuosly. Actually it demotivate us & divert from the path of our goal. No one is ready to accept the truth that

''NOBODY IS PERFECT  IN THIS  WORLD''

And we are wishing to be like others instead of loving self & the belongings what we have & in what the things we are best. If we look out inside this matter we also get this is all because we forget about life's rule. Life is full of struggles , and I think if there is no struggle it means you are on wrong track. This don't let you go to your success path. That's why struggle is much important in our life in making our own stand.

It's a human behavior when we find the qualities that we lack, in someone, we think or wish to be like them but it's not right my dear maybe they lack in some other qualities. These thoughts make week to us we just think If I have that, I can definitely do this and without this i can't . Let me show  you an exception :

You all know about the World's first amputee lady Everest climber,

 Yes, her name is Arunima Sinha after losing her legs she decided to climb the Everest. She didn't care what she lost, she care what she have and she achieve  that .
Be like this

Stop copying and comparing with other 
Love the what you are. Respect what you have  

Also

Someone said 

''Comparing yourself with other 

 is actually insulting of your own ''

SO